The thing is, as with many other masculine insecurities, this is predominantly in our heads. Worse, I’m the shortest of all my friends who range from 5’1o” on the short side, to 6’7″ on the tall side.But my height has only been as much of a problem as I’d let it be.There are some people who can fill a room, regardless of how tall they are or aren’t.They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.
The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.A shitty attitude, whether angry and aggressive or defeated and negative, will nuke any chance of sex or love faster than telling them that you eat live puppies. A short man with confidence is far more attractive than a tall guy without it.One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.Presence is, simply, your ability to command people’s attention.