Socialize with more women, date more women, have intimate connections with more women (I don’t support cheating! A lot of guys are put off by socializing with women they wouldn’t normally date.This is a weak mentality of worrying about what others think. No matter how wide, how tall, or how scary, you must try to ride them all in all environments.Typically, a woman can only feel attraction for a man when she is in her feminine, therefore as a man you need to step into the masculine dominant role.You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.Do you remember the girl that made you feel the way that no one else could? All night…Imagine being with this woman, getting along just perfect, deeply in love, and having great connection every day.The energy, excitement and sensual tension that you wanted to last forever. No fights or arguing just absolute joy and pleasure everyday.Listen up I have news for you: If you want to be good with high quality women, Take surfing for example: During the course of learning how to surf, you can’t just say, “I only want to surf 10 foot waves. Just like surfing, with continuous practice, you can improve with women and dating.
The media has done a great job at making you believe in the erroneous assumption that money and six pack abs is the path to get your dream girl. If you spend too much money on a woman or do too many favors for her, you are subtly telling her that your pocketbook is ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER.She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.The guys that care too much lowers his own value and doesn’t create sentiments of allure because guys that care too much are telling women– through concern, through availability, through his being there too much- that he is in fact, not special or unique at all. He is more available than hydrogen, more common than dirt, and freer to talk to than the operator at Home Depot – but a smooth operator he is not.. She’ll run faster than Usain Bolt in the Olympics and any person who has respect for himself would do the same.You think: “There is NOBODY out there for me so I better treat this one girl amazing because I don’t know if and when I will ever experience this again”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.– Bobbe Sommer When you start thinking like this, you start liking girls that remotely show any signs of interest in you.